A question to Muslims [Jang-e-Jamal] the battle of the camals another bitter piece of history who is RIGHT? ?

First of all listen up folks! I am just putting history in front of you and just asking you a simple question.What is wrong with that?.Are we not aloud to discuss history?.Discussing something or asking a question or putting your point of view forward or distinguishing between right and wrong or pointing out what has been said or done is wrong,does this cause division? NO!.Some body who has a status or is special and they say or do something or if they are involved/part of something which is wrong/capable of criticism and you point out that [with all due respect] this person is wrong or you criticise them,does this cause division? NO!.Should all this be upsetting?NO! it should not be.What causes division and what is upsetting is some of you people out there not being civilised and understanding about it.Not excepting that your brother/sister is different than you.Calling your brother/sister KAFIR and looking for silly excuses to justify it.False allegations/accusations and swearing etc this is what causes division and this is what is upsetting.Now keep your hair on your head and your shirt on yourself and be civilised and understanding.I am not a SUNNI or a SHIA.Now what i am going to say is surely my point of view.You don't have to agree with it,you don't have to except it,but be civilised about it.All i expect is your point of view in a civilised manner,a decent discussion,a defensive debate based on sense and logic.Is that too much to ask for?Now the question Hazrath Ali [ra] the fourth rightfully selected Khalif of the Muslims.It is stated that anybody who disagrees or goes against the Khalif regardless of who he is Hazrath Abubakar/Omar/Usman/Ali [raa] is considered as an OUTLAW.Now Hazrath Aisha [ra] went to war against the fourth Khalif.This is called [Jang-e-Jamal] known as the war of the camals.Now surely somebody was seriously on the wrong here!.Listen i have just mentioned a fact and then the incident so there is no need to get carried away.Thousands of lives were lost in this war.Now looking at both individuals,one not only a companion of the Prophet [pbuh] but also a member of the household of the Prophet [pbuh] and the fourth rightfully selected Khalif of the Muslims [including Hazrath Aisha [ra].On the other hand we have one of the wives of the Prophet [pbuh].Is it fair to say they were both right? come on thousands of lives were lost here!.Lets look at this with sense and logic.Lets also bring facts and reality into this which can not be denied or ignored.First fact allready been mentioned,Hazrath Ali [ra] the fourth rightfully selected Khalif,also a very trusted companion of the Prophet [pbuh],also a member of [ashra-e mobashira] the top ten companions named by the Prophet [pbuh],also a member of [ahlul-baith] the household of the Prophet [pbuh].Second fact allready mentioned anybody who disagrees/goes against/challendes any rightfully selected Khalif is considered an OUTLAW!.Third fact the Prophet's [pbuh] hadith [saying] one of my wives will leave her place as a house wife, will sit on a camal and go to war with Ali [ra].She will reach a specific place and the dogs of that place will bark at her and there will be no doubt that she will be on the wrong.Listen i am not saying this,it's an hadith [saying].I have approached all three scholars,sunni/shia/wahabi they do not deny this.NOW YOU DECIDE! ONE IS RIGHT ONE IS SEVERLY WRONG.